I loved this article but I wanted to add a question I’ve been asking a lot of men in my life. Many of my women friends (myself included) are frustrated that men don’t feel ready to commit to us until they figure themselves out. Many won’t hook up with us or date us. And while we find ourselves genuinely looking for a relationship we don’t know what to do if the men in our lives refuse to give us one. What do we do in the meantime? Have sex with ourselves? Focus on our own ambition? Never mind. I just answered my own question.