…re your legacy. Once you require validation, you will always require more of it just to keep going. If my Medium page ever went away, the internet would forget me in a blink. I left my job of seven years. I am technically unemployed now. I feel fraudulent because I’m so fixated on the tangible, and of that I still feel like I have little to show. If I am so great, how come I am drinking alone on my birthday? How come I always drink alone? Life’s funny that way. Tangibility. We crave it. We judge folks on it. Often, I feel like my dad sure does.